concerned. If 90% of sexual assault victims don't report the crime, how big are the numbers really?
I started writing this blog two years ago and then I walked away from it, thinking "do I really want to be this vulnerable in the web-verse?" The #metoo movement last week gave me cause to revisit. My firstborn is now in her second year in college. She is my clone in nearly every way. We look alike. We sound alike. We think alike. We share a sick sense of humor. There's one huge difference though. She survived high school without being sexually assaulted. I didn't. I was assaulted twice in high school and never reported either one. I questioned myself and wondered, "Why did I get into that elevator with that guy?" or "Why did I think that other guy just wanted to show me something backstage?" I wasn't raped, but I was violated. I was touched when I didn't want to be, in ways I didn't want to be touched, by people I gave no permission, either directly or indirectly, to touch me. I should have reported them, I know, h